The 21st century was the pioneer
of the concept “Group”. As per Teen 101 dictionary the term group can be
defined as “teenagers from same or different institute irrespective of their
gender come together for the sole purpose of doing nothing but timepass.”
The concept of group prevails in schools but it enters
usually at the end year of our school life. As we commence with our college
life The Real Group starts. Movies, music, parties, relationships, etc are the
features of group!!
Groups are of three types 1. Girls-Girls Group (La Group)
2.
Boy-Boys Group (Dude Group)
3. Girls-Boys Group (Mixed Group)
FYI I took the
liberty of naming them.
La Groups are small with five girls. If it increases they
can’t stand each other. If it the count decreases, its not a group anymore. This group is best known for doings Gossips (Regardless
of topic). There are frequent screaming situation observed in this group for
instance they celebrate “Seeing” each other by screaming and hugging! They even
walk on the road holding their hands (if boys do that...i need not say any
further).
La Girls is the most controversial kinda group among all.
Usually the members criticize “other” people outside the group but La Girls
criticize their own group member, unusual but true! For instance Riya, Rima and
Revati, three girlfriends are talking and Riya goes off the sight for some
reason,
Rima, “Dont you think Riya is mean?"
Revati, "Yeah! Totally I was gonna tell tell same...” and
blah blah...
After sometime if Revati goes off the sight
Riya, "Whats all that about? Why is Revati showing so much
attitude?”
Rima, "I don’t know but she has been the same since
beginning. I don’t like her”
Well here Who-Likes-Who is a paradoxical question!! But when
they are together the collectively criticize others.
The Dude Group is the most Happy-Go-Lucky group! History has
witnessed that many successful films are made on this kinda group. There are
usually three or maximum five members.
They don’t gossip, they don’t criticize because lets face it
they don’t really care! Fun is their only motto. Movies are their oxygen!
Planning, organising, co-ordinating, rules, limitations are the words not in
their dictionary!
They share only fun and happy moments and sneak their asses
out in complicated situation unless the situation is too damn serious.
These groups usually last long. They fight on silly things
and forgive after split second! They never care to wish happy birthday,
friendship day, or any such crap for them everyday is friendship day but they
are totally concerned with Party!
One friend to another,”Hey dude happy birthday!!”
Birthday boy, "bastard it was yesterday...”
“Anyway where is the party, Jackass!?!?”
There is nothing much to say about this group. You give them
the latest iPhone, a Xbox to play with, a bike to ride, cool remote controlled
car or helicopter, hundreds of movies and they are happy as hell!
Mixed group it could be as small as five or as large as
twenty or even more! They prefer calling them by certain “name” such as Magic,
Juvenile, Parindey etc and creating facebook groups by name “magic rockers!” anything
with “rocker” at the end! (or sometime with Roxxxxx at the end)
9 out of 10 times this group is formed in college or class!
And is mostly likely to break at the end of academic year. And when few of the
group members meet after some year they are like, “oh we used to have so much
fun!!”
(FYI the above sentence is usually said by a girl or a boy
unless he is gay or talking to another girl)
Members of mixed group constitute of some geeks, some Romeos,
fashion freak girls, freak girls, beautiful girls, dumb boys/girls, some who don’t
care about group, some Oh-No-My-Mom-Wont-Allow people!
They love celebrating each and every day. They go “Haaapppyyy
fraaaandship day guyzzzzz!!!!!” (Extra the "a", extra the "z",extra the flava)
They’ll call each other in the middle of night just
to wish Happy B’day. They make plans, hell lotta plans but the problem is never
implement one!
Most of the problems are seen in This group. Sometimes there
are even groups within group, few don’t talk to other few they are like...
“If he is coming then I’ll not am sorry”
Relationships prevail in this group promptly. Name me one
single mixed group without a single relationship and i‘ll kiss you in public (provided "you" is a girl, hot).
Favourite hobby of mixed group is taking photos where ever
they go and uploading them on facebook and commenting till their fingers start
paining and typing nothing else than “guys had a lots of fun” “totally you
remember this?” “you remember that?” and “bullshit”! favourite poses are
standing in a cirle, making a star of fingers, legs etc!!!
This is an observation from a distance. I am myself a part of a Dude group with my best friends.
so, its not judgemental. just observational.
-Fate
